Student: Alexandra Wray
PhD project: Supporting families when a parent has died
Funder: Yorkshire Cancer Research
Time frame: July 2019 to April 2023
Supervisors: Dr Jason Boland, Professor Fliss Murtagh and Dr Clare Whitfield
Aim
The aim of this study is to explore how children and families can best support each other following the death of a parent and to understand how those around them can offer a supportive response
Summary
In the UK, 46,300 children are bereaved of a parent each year. We understand bereaved people need a supportive response from those around them. However, there is limited evidence to inform our understanding of this.
Following a systematic review to identify and synthesise the experiences of support for children and surviving parents following parental death, a qualitative study was undertaken. The project was carefully designed with the involvement of bereaved children and families who have experienced the death of a parent, a Young Persons Advisory Group that helped design and plan research with children, and professionals working in services offering bereavement support to families.
Using a constructivist grounded theory approach, in-depth interviews were conducted with children and their surviving parents after the death of a parent to explore their experiences and perspectives of support needs. Data were analysed using constant comparison, following Charmaz’s open, focused, and theoretical coding stages.
Systematic review findings highlighted the limited studies, including children and parents, that explored bereavement support. Seventeen parents and eleven of their children participated in online interviews. Theoretical coding of key categories from both interview data sets culminated in developing a substantive theory, ‘masking your grief - because you feel you have to’, articulating the behaviour patterns amongst children, surviving parents and those around them following their bereavement. Families gave examples of the supportive responses they received from each other and those within their networks. However, the response was not sustained.
‘Masking your grief - because you feel you have to’ is something children and parents do to protect each other and the people around them. It often happens because the immediate bereavement support dwindles as the people around them do not understand what they continue to go through.
Outputs and resources
Wray, A. (2021) Alex’s blog: a nurse’s honest experience of navigating a PhD. British Journal of Child Health. Published Online: 12 Aug 2021.
Wray A, Seymour J, Greenley S, Boland, J (2022) Parental terminal cancer and dependent children: a systematic review. BMJ Supportive & Palliative Care Published Online First: 28 January 2022. doi: 10.1136/bmjspcare-2021-003094
Wray, A., Pickwell-Smith, B., Greenley, S., Pask, S., Bamidele, O., Wright, B., Murtagh, F. & Boland J, W. Parental death: a systematic review of support experiences and needs of children and parent survivors. BMJ Supportive & Palliative Care Published Online First: 16 November 2022.